About Us

The founders of SSS

About Southborough Safe Spaces

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Southborough Safe Spaces (SBSS) began to help community kids and parents of all faiths navigate the struggles of coming out as LGBTQ+ while facing the scarcity of mental health providers, far too few meet the demand. The foundations of SBSS started with a belief that each person holds within themselves a spirituality that is inherent: it is part of what makes us human. SBSS’s foundation was launched by parents who imagined a Parent-Informed, Youth-Focused, Mind-Body-Spirit informed place for their families to navigate the adversity of raising LGBTQ+ youth in a world that presents them with unique challenges. Sarah (she, her) is the mom of an LGBTQ+ identifying teen who, two years ago, for the second year in a row, spent 7 days with her kid in the ER after a significant self-harm attempt. There were no inpatient mental health services available to help them for an entire week. Dawn (she, they) is the youth leader who showed up at the hospital every day to bring food and offer support, and a strong wish that they could do more. We are the founders of SBSS. We are parents whose lives were so changed by this experience, and in those moments in the hospital waiting room we realized these things were not only happening to us. The current national youth mental and spiritual health crisis came clearly into view, and we realized we were squarely in the middle of it. We turned to our spiritual foundations to guide us through these moments of adversity and crisis. This is the moment Southborough Safe Spaces was created, an emergency response for a heartbreaking crisis that knew no discrimination.

About our Leaders

The founders of SSS

Sarah Whiteman (she, her), Co-Founder

Sarah is a small business owner and LGBTQ+ advocate certified in diversity and inclusion at Cornell University. Sarah’s SBSS specialties include nonprofit management, marketing and communications, community engagement, as well as development and donor relations. With a degree specializing in Early Childhood Education, she has volunteered internationally promoting child welfare both at home and abroad. Sarah believes in the power of relationship, and focuses on bringing the whole family/community of care into the work of LGBTQ+ youth advocacy. As a self-avowed “church lady,” Sarah recognizes the importance of both mental and spiritual health within children, and helps kids develop a deeper spirituality. The promise of creating a world where every LGBTQ+ youth feels loved and accepted is a goal that keeps Sarah going.

Dawn Sorensen (she, they), Co-Founder

Dawn is a life-long LGBTQ+ activist who has been leading and developing LGBTQ+ organizations since 1992. Dawn is a staff member in the Office of Ministry Studies at Harvard Divinity School who works with students pursuing Master of Divinity degrees, and is also trained in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) curriculum, leading youth groups, and healthy relationships. Creating safe spaces for LGBTQ+ youth, providing resources, education, and care so that LGBTQ+ youth can flourish and spread their wings as happy, healthy adults are Dawn’s passions.

Opportunities to Serve

As part of the Southborough Community, we take pride in giving back when we can. We are growing and active in our community and we are working on planning future events where we can be of service to others.  Past service events included making Christmas Cards for the LGBT Asylum Task Force in Worcester, filling stockings for the LGBT Task Force, and sending cards to The LGBTQ+ based Home for Little Wanderers in Boston.

Reach us at southboroughsafespaces@gmail.com